Let’s talk this week about one of the biggest issues that faces Christians. Why won’t God answer my prayer? Right? We’ve all had this moment. Something is happening, and you’re praying, and you’re praying, and….. nothing is happening. And, you start to doubt, you start to wonder, maybe…. I’m not praying right, maybe God doesn’t love me enough, maybe whatever. Well, I’d like to take a little time this week, to go through some possibilities of what’s going on. I know it took me a while to figure some of these out myself.
First thing, we have to understand why God does answer prayer. God answers prayer, when it’s His will. So, as I’ve stated previously, you have to pray for God’s will to be exercised through you, you have to bring His will onto Earth. I’ll use money as an example: You can pray for more money, but then you have to be ready for the responsibilities of more money, be ready to give His portion back (you should already be giving Him his portion too), be ready to walk through the opportunities that He gives you to get more money. But, with all of this, it also has to be the right time for you to get more money (and only God knows when that is.) Sometimes, your circumstances have to be what they are for God to work the blessings He has in store for you, and if that means you need to be strapped for cash right now, then that’s how things are going to be for a minute. But know, that God does want good things for you, through your trials and tribulations, remember that God plays the long game. You need to as well.
This ties into the second one, which I’m sure we’ve all heard. It’s in His timing. This one is rough. ” But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day.” 2 Peter 3:8. The Lord’s timing is completely different from ours, and that makes waiting seem like it’s taking f o r e v e r. But, it’s true. God only does things when the time is right, and he never does it during the wrong time. And, as Christians, this goes back to trusting God. We have to implicitly trust in His timing. Again, it’s the long game. God’s got all the time in the world to make His will happen in our lives. Our relationship with God, is a marathon. Even the Bible refers to “running the good race.” “You were running a good race. Who cut in on you to keep you from obeying the truth?” – Galatians 5:7 I like that it asks you this ^^ question right after, seems like we’ve all struggled with keeping to the Word sometimes. 😉
Sometimes, it’s not God’s will. —-OOOHHHH, ouch. Although that one is a little cutting, let me lessen the blow. Sometimes, it’s true, what you’re asking for, is not what God has in mind, but this is two-fold. 1) Because He has something better in mind, which again, we have to trust that He knows what’s best since He is the omnipotent God. 2) It’s truly not His will. —- Now, we as Christians are supposed to be trying to align ourselves to be more Christ-like, to be more in-tune with God, to have a heart and mind like God does…. not just for ourselves and our daily lives, but for our prayer-life. Then, if we are achieving this harmonious relationship with Jesus and our Lord, we begin to pray accordingly – more in line with the Father’s will – and therefore seeing more of our prayers being answered! <— See how all that melded together? As I grow in my prayer-life, I realize more and more, that I’m not praying for my outcome – what I think I want to happen in the situation. I am praying for the situation, and that God put His hand in there and do what needs to be done for the best outcome. A big part of that, is because I’ve been shown, that I obviously have no idea what the best outcome is sometimes because I’m over here thinking about options A, B, and C, and God comes out of left field and answers the situation with Option M – which no one even thought was possible or in the realm of being able to answer the situation. But, that’s really some of the most AMAZING work that God does sometimes. He completely exceeds our expectations and gives these miraculous answers, but we have to be ready and open for these answers too.
And, then, my final one. Which may be the most difficult one to understand at times. Going back to my post last week. We live in a fallen world. And, sometimes, our prayers don’t get answered because there are more things at work. Sometimes, when it’s a situation that the devil obviously has a hold of, it may take longer to win the battle. I feel that sometimes, we can pray all we want, but if you’re not dealing with just yourself in the situation, and the devil’s got a hold on the other players, those players are going to have to ask God to step in. He’s a gentlemen. Maybe the only thing you can do is pray that they see the light. Or try to pray with them. Continue to be a blessing of love and light in their lives, and pray that they ask God to enter the situation. ” For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” Ephesians 6:12. Sometimes, it’s not our part to solve the situation, but to pray for the right person to do the right thing. No matter how bad we want it. This is a moment of let go, and Let God.
With all that being said, I hope it helps. I hope you have a better understanding of some of your situations right now, or some of your situations in the past. I hope you can apply some of this knowledge in the future. To know, that God does want what’s best for you, and for those around you, and to ALWAYS trust in Him. I hope that you continue to grow in your Faith and your understanding of the deep love the Father has for you, and that you may grow in your love with the Father as well.
Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you! Thank you for all that you’ve done for us. For all that you continue to do. For your great knowledge and understanding of our lives, and our hearts. I pray Father that you give deep knowledge and consolation to all those reading this. That you lay your hands upon their lives, and hold them close. That we may all share in the understanding that You do know what’s best for us. That Your hand may be at work in our lives, in all the best ways possible. That you give us the peace that surpasses all understanding as we wait for Your will to be done here. That You continue to watch over us and guide us in Your ways. That You bless the work of our hands and the words that come out of our mouths. That they may be blessings to those around us. That we show others Your light through our actions and our words. That all the world may know Your love, and that we may be a part in sharing that love. Bless us. Bless those around us. That it may all be for Your glory and honor. IN JESUS’ NAME!!! AMEN!
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